Expats told a useful ‘trick’ when moving abroad that can help them settle in – and avoid feeling ‘overwhelmed’

Living abroad can be an exciting and enriching experience, but it is not without its difficulties.

Experts warned expats against a common habit that can leave them feeling overwhelmed when moving. They shared some helpful tips to follow instead.

A common mistake is made when learning the local language. While this is useful and well worth doing, pushing yourself too hard could have a negative effect, according to experts from language learning platform Promova.

They said expats should allow themselves to “learn a local language gradually”.

They continued: “People who move to a country that speaks a language they don’t know, often feel like they need to immediately know every word in the new language to be able to communicate.

“That sense of urgency makes it feel like there isn’t time to actually figure out a learning plan and determine what constitutes absolutely necessary vocabulary and grammar.

“But trying to pick up the language randomly without well-considered planning isn’t the path to fluency.”

Rushing to learn a new language may not be beneficial as expats can become stressed. Instead, start with the most common words.

They added: “The trick to expressing yourself in a new language – and without becoming overwhelmed – is to start with a high surrender value language.

“These are the words and phrases you need for everyday situations like grocery shopping, using public transportation, or asking for help.

“It’s better to learn the language out of necessity by first memorising and using vital words and phrasing and then gradually moving on from there.”

Similarly, those living abroad should be patient with themselves when they make a mistake.

They continued: “Many adults experience shame when they make errors while speaking a new language – they want to be good at it on their first try. To avoid embarrassment, learners either practice less with locals or become their own harshest critics, questioning their capabilities and harming their confidence.

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“Every language learner should remember that making mistakes is completely normal.

“It’s part of the learning process. Locals won’t judge you harshly for pronunciation slip-ups, misspelling a word or a sentence that’s a bit clunky.

“They value the effort you’re making to communicate in their language and appreciate the respect you’re showing towards their culture.”

This comes as an expat who moved to Spain told Britons calling people at a specific time is considered rude.